Comments on: Things to Avoid on Your First Date http://www.niquehappy.com/blog/2007/02/28/things-to-avoid-on-your-first-date/ Sat, 20 Mar 2010 17:24:06 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.4 by: fenris042 http://www.niquehappy.com/blog/2007/02/28/things-to-avoid-on-your-first-date/#comment-5838 Mon, 26 Mar 2007 01:08:52 +0000 http://www.niquehappy.com/blog/2007/02/28/things-to-avoid-on-your-first-date/#comment-5838 I had to respond to this one. If I was a man I would run so fast from this type of woman guys that it would not matter her thirteen point test. If you have to pass a test or impress a woman for her to like you, than that is generally a pretty shallow woman. It is just a good for a woman to pick a man up for the first date as it is ok for a woman to be fashionably late for a date, yet its not cool for a man? Promptness is a general courtesy that should be given to every one. Guys, just find a woman you can be yourself with and honest with, because that is who she is going to have to live with if you end up in a relationship, don't pretend to be someone you are not to impress a woman. I find most down to earth woman have no such expectations from their man other than mutual respect. Men in the USA tend to be a bit more posessive and still protective, lighten up guys its the 21st Century and we are all humans equal. So to all men and woman, just be yourselves and remember in order to meet someone you actually have to leave your house and go into public and talk to people you have never met before in most cases. Once you get past that fear of meeting new people, you can become more comfortable at being yourself when talking to someone you have interest in. Most woman I know have already noticed and picked out their potential interests not long after entering a social environment just not as obvious as men are. So remember, do not follow any set of rules for a better relationship, just try being honest to each other and communicate, if your spouse or lover is not also your best friend than maybe this is not your true love? This is just one males opinion. I had to respond to this one. If I was a man I would run so fast from this type of woman guys that it would not matter her thirteen point test. If you have to pass a test or impress a woman for her to like you, than that is generally a pretty shallow woman. It is just a good for a woman to pick a man up for the first date as it is ok for a woman to be fashionably late for a date, yet its not cool for a man? Promptness is a general courtesy that should be given to every one.

Guys, just find a woman you can be yourself with and honest with, because that is who she is going to have to live with if you end up in a relationship, don’t pretend to be someone you are not to impress a woman. I find most down to earth woman have no such expectations from their man other than mutual respect. Men in the USA tend to be a bit more posessive and still protective, lighten up guys its the 21st Century and we are all humans equal.

So to all men and woman, just be yourselves and remember in order to meet someone you actually have to leave your house and go into public and talk to people you have never met before in most cases. Once you get past that fear of meeting new people, you can become more comfortable at being yourself when talking to someone you have interest in. Most woman I know have already noticed and picked out their potential interests not long after entering a social environment just not as obvious as men are.

So remember, do not follow any set of rules for a better relationship, just try being honest to each other and communicate, if your spouse or lover is not also your best friend than maybe this is not your true love?

This is just one males opinion.

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